WOMEN ARE STRONGER AND GREATER TOGETHER

I was new in a this locality after my education where i was recruited to begin my career as a nurse in 2020. It was a natural, friendly and scary environment which i resolved to adapt properly. I will socialize properly with my fellow colleagues and try as much as i can not to have issues with people in the area.

During this process, I didn't realize I was offending a particular person but then noticed her remorseful look towards me. I could see hatred towards me when I look at her and couldn't help but wave it off cos i knew I wasn't offending anyone at that moment. One faithful day, she walked up to me and said "Hi" and extended greetings from my best friend who was in town and I was amazed we had a common friend. I got curious and worried as well.

This faithful day came when I had to open up to my best friend on phone. I was like, "Best, there is this lady that said you sent her to greet me which i received shockingly cos I've never had a fallout with her, yet she looks at me always with hatred which I think it is passionate hatred😂. I don't know what i did wrong or how i offended her but I believe it is quite serious". It was there and then that she said it was because of the guy I was in a relationship with by then. I was shocked, amazed and somehow flabbergasted with awe. I couldn't understand why a lady like me will just hate another cos of a man and it got me thinking so hard.

I got to her and requested to meet with her for a talk which she accepted without objection and it gladdened my heart so well. When we met, she was able to express herself saying they were dating and broke up, but then, the guy was still trying to come back while she was seeing that he had moved on with me. So that was the reason for the hatred, she loved him so much and i could see it in her eyes when she was expressing herself, I was just a stumbling block at that moment. I felt bad cos I could imagine the pain in it.

At that point, I had to be myself and make a different story out of the situation. I suggested we become friends and let that slide because I have always concerned the Idea that women can be powerful, strong and great together instead of fighting each other. So I made her to understand the view that men will always have many options as to what girl to date and marry but we women, we are our own keeper, protector and safety. And if we could watch each other's back, that which the world is turning to, won't have ever had a chance to debut. We became friends and one another keeper. Of course I had to end things with the guy cos from all indication, he wasn't serious at all. We even planned on confronting the guy to teach him a beautiful lesson, but he became wise and ran off. We had to now focus on our career and take bold steps. At that moment, i was following my degree program while working and I encouraged her to continue with her education in order to boast her self confidence and grow in her career. It was tough on her and it has been tough on her and I can tell cos she reflects my background when it comes to education. Not having a financial fit family to support through schools and you have to push through to be able to come out and change the story of your lineage. She took up the courage and went back to school to get her diploma and that particular journey has been going on with the hand of God assisting her in a miraculous way. I don't have much to help her out of the difficulty and the highest i offer is encouragement and prayers for a breakthrough. God has been faithful to her and us and we are good friends relying on each other now so well and motivated by each other. I have learned much from her and I'm still learning and I believe she has learned from me. We are different now together and a better version of ourselves since we met each other.

I've learned this and I will like to share to women out here.

1. We can be better version of ourselves if we stick together and hold each other's hand in this journey of life.

2. We can be powerful, strong and great, if we keep our differences aside and work together for our common good.

3. Love yourself and appreciate yourself and with that, it will be easier loving your fellow woman and appreciating them.

4. Never act on your emotions alone. Be logical in every decision and action. Weigh the outcome of each decision and action and confirm the long lasting effects.

5. Never trade or betray your fellow woman for unworthy or worthy things. Betrayal is not worthy and efforts. Cherish every woman as a sister, mother and best friend.

I could go on and on and won't get weary but then reading isn't an easy hobby for some person's. So this can go a long way to help a sister, friend, mother and best friend.

A sister is not a trait or trade, she is a companion for a better tomorrow and wonderful society. Humanity will always begin in a woman and so, we are Value and rare germ.

We are women.

We are powerful.

We are great.

We are strong.

We are the world's best value.

We are the world.

Happy women's day to all my sisters, mothers, friends and best friends.